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Values Of Love, Care & Loyalty

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Values Of Love, Care & Loyalty

The passengers on the bus watched sympathetically as the attractive young woman with the white cane made her way carefully up the steps.

She paid the driver and, using her hands to feel the location of the seats, walked down the aisle and found the seat he’d told her was empty. Then she’s settled in, placed her briefcase on her lap and rested her cane against her leg.

It had been a year since Susan became blind. Due to a medical misdiagnosis she had been rendered sightless, and she was suddenly thrown into a world of darkness, anger,frustration and self-pity. ‘How could this have happened to me?’ she would plead, her heart knotted with anger. But no matter how much she cried or ranted or prayed, she knew the painful truth, her sight was never going to return. A cloud of depression hung over Susan’s once optimistic spirit. All she had to cling to was her husband Mark.

Mark was an Air Force officer and he loved Susan with all his heart. When she first lost her sight, he watched her sink into despair and was determined to help his wife gain the strength she needed to become independent again.

Finally, Susan felt ready to return to her job, but how would she get there? She used to take the bus, but was now too frightened to get around the city by herself. Mark volunteered to drive her to work each day, even though they worked at opposite ends of the city. At first, this comforted Susan and fulfilled Mark’s need to protect his sightless wife who was so insecure about performing the slightest task.

Soon, however Mark realized that this arrangement wasn’t working – it was hectic, and costly.

Susan is going to have to start taking the bus again, he admitted to himself. But just the thought of mentioning it toher made him cringe. She was still so fragile, so angry. How would she react? Just as Mark predicted, Susan was horrified at the idea of taking the bus again. “I’m blind!” she responded bitterly. “How am I supposed to know where I’m going? I feel like you’re abandoning me.”

Mark’s heart broke but he knew what had to be done. He promised Susan that each day he would ride the bus with her until she got the hang of it.

And that is exactly what happened. For two solid weeks, Mark, military uniform and all, accompanied Susan to and from work each day. He taught her how to rely on her other senses to determine where she was and how to adapt to her new environment. He helped her befriend the bus drivers who could watch out for her, and save her a seat. Each morning they made the journey together, and Mark would take a cab back to his office.

Although this routine was even more costly and exhausting than the previous one, Mark knew it was only a matter of time before Susan would be able to ride the bus onher own. Finally, Susan decided that she was ready to try the trip on her own. Monday morning arrived, and before she left, she threw her arms around Mark, her temporary bus riding companion, her husband, and her best friend. Her eyes filled with tears of gratitude for his loyalty, his patience, his love. She said good-bye, and for the first time, they went their separate ways. Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday…. Each day on her own went perfectly, and Susan had never felt better.

On Friday morning, Susan took the bus to work as usual. As she was paying for her fare to exit the bus, the driver said,”Boy, I sure envy you.” Susan wasn’t sure if the driver was speaking to her or not. After all, who on earth would ever envy a blind woman who had struggled just to find the courage to live for the past year? “Why do you envy me?”

The driver responded, “It must feel so good to be taken care of and protected like you are.” Susan had no idea what the driver was talking about, “What do you mean?” The driver said,”You know, every morning for the past week, a fine looking gentleman in a military uniform has been standing across the corner watching you when you get off the bus. He makes sure you cross the street safely and he watches you until you enter your office building. Then he blows you a kiss, gives you a little salute and walks away. You are one lucky lady.”

Tears of happiness poured down Susan’s cheeks. For although she couldn’t see him, she had always felt Mark’s presence. She was blessed, so blessed, for he had given her a gift more powerful than sight, a gift she didn’t need to see to believe – the gift of love that can bring light where there had been darkness.

“You don’t love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her…”

To all married couples, treasure your marriage!!!
God bless you all…

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Read on the story of Alexander John Cruz,

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Read on the story of Alexander John Cruz,
summa cum laude and valedictorian of the University of the Philippines’ chemical engineering class of 2014.

From problem-solving cheapskate to summa cum laude: A true story & a dream came true because of courage & determination.
MANILA, Philippines – In April 2009, two months before studying chemical engineering at the University of the Philippines (UP) Diliman, Alexander John Cruz had a big problem. He only had P2,500 in his wallet and was waiting for classes to begin so he could receive his scholarship allowance from the Department of Science and Technology (DOST). He was already at the university that time, attending tutorial classes as part of his scholarship program. He was promised a P3,000-allowance, to be given in two tranches for the duration of the preparatory classes. The first half would be released at the start of the tutorials, the second half by the end. With little money for two months, he had to ask for free menudo sauce at the University Consumers Cooperative canteen, so he would only pay for rice in his meals. He became a cheapskate not by choice, but by circumstance.

Alex is no stranger to poverty. When he was 2 years old, his mother, a single parent, had to enroll him at the barangay Day Care Center in Talavera, Nueva Ecija because she didn’t have the money to buy for his milk. The center was managed by the Department of Social Welfare and Development, and the students were given free food in class. When he was a kid, he was used to making a meal out of rice swimming in sugar water.

When he graduated valedictorian at the Honorato C. Perez, Sr. Memorial Science High School in Cabanatuan City, he was originally supposed to enroll in a provincial college, even if he passed the highly competitive UP College Admission Test.

“If you have the money, go to UP,” his mother told him.

Two weeks before his high school graduation, he learned that he won a scholarship from DOST, so he hopped on a bus to Quezon City the following month, tugging his bags and appliances, with a meager amount in his wallet.

Five years later, his big gamble paid off. Alex is not only graduating on Sunday; he will graduate with the university’s highest academic achievement.

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“I was the first in the family. No one ever expected that I’d be a summa cum laude graduate,” he said.

But he had it all planned from the start. On his first semester in university, Alex sat his first long exam in Math 17, the notorious college algebra and trigonometry course that occupies a spot in UP Diliman campus legends. For freshmen students required to take the course, Math 17 is the university’s baptism of fire, with a number of students failing every semester. Alex was confident, though; he was expecting he would top the exam with a high grade. He got a little above 60 percent.

“Everyone in the dormitory kept bragging their scores in the Math 17 long exam,” he said. The experience humbled him, and made him fear for the remaining nine semesters in his college life. “I thought I will crawl my way to my UP graduation,” he said.

He was determined to make a turnaround, however. After the disappointing first exam results, he started photocopying previous final exams and studied harder on his own and with his classmates. His determination to improve pushed him not only to perfect the second exam, but go beyond the 100-percent mark with a 110-percent score. “There’s a 10-percent bonus,” he said. He went on perfecting the succeeding exams and got a final grade of 1.0, the highest in the university’s grading scale. The next semester, he got the highest mark in all 18 units, translating to a general weighted average of 1.0. That year, he wrote “graduate summa cum laude” on a sticky note and posted it on his room wall. Almost five years later, he finished with an overall grade of 1.16, well beyond the 1.2-and-above requirement for a summa cum laude distinction.

Studying hard became his routine, and despite his being poor, he made sure to maximize the university’s resources. “Every semester, I make sure that I have materials for my subjects. I don’t buy books; I just borrow,” he said. Acing his tests wasn’t the only challenge for Alex, as he had to find a way to finance his college education from start to end.

“I was on my own,” he said, so he took a number of jobs to make ends meet. He taught Ateneo High School students mathematics and chemistry for three hours a week. When he needed more money, he applied as research assistant to his professors, checking 120 papers weekly and doing research. He also took another tutorial job for students preparing for the National Medical Admission Test.

Despite having a busy schedule almost every day, he found time for extra-curricular activities, joining a number of organizations in the university. He was a member of the UP Academic League of Chemical Engineering Students, the UP Career Assistance Program for Engineering Students, the UP Organization of Novo Ecijanos and the Philippine Institute of Chemical Engineers Junior Chapter- Luzon.

“I met people who are really all-around, excelling in academics and leadership, bagging awards and winning competitions,” he said.

Inspired by his friends, he worked on joining the UP Diliman team in the National Chemical Engineering Quiz Bowl.

“It’s the first time I represented UP in a national competition and we won,” he said.

His biggest achievement, however, happened on his last year in the university. With two other classmates, he worked on a tongue-twisting thesis titled “Design, Optimization and Field Testing of a Plasma-Enhanced Optic Fiber Reactor for Hydrogen Production via Visible Light-Driven Photocatalytic Water-Splitting.” He explained that a synthesized ingredient is mixed with water, which is subjected to sunlight. The reaction splits the hydrogen and oxygen molecules in water, and hydrogen is used as an energy source. The hydrogen interacts once more with oxygen, producing water as a byproduct. The water is split once more and process repeats itself.

“When hydrogen is used, the byproduct is water so it’s a continuous process,” he said, adding that hydrogen as an alternative energy source is a more efficient alternative than carbon which is used in the country’s power plants.

His thesis won four awards: the UP College of Engineering’s undergraduate project competition, the Phi Kappa Phi International Citation for Science Project, the Chemical Engineering National Undergraduate Research Competition and the Bank of the Philippine Islands-DOST Science Awards Best Project of the Year.

“We did research; we did extreme literature review; we stayed up all night for experiments,” he said. He added that the prize money from the various competitions helped him with his finances, especially in paying for graduation requirements.

Looking back at his college life, Alex said his achievements are attributable to his strict mother who helped him develop a rewarding study habit. He never got the chance to meet his father, but his mother ensured that he is taken care of and guided in his studies. He is also thankful for his aunts, who supported him financially and gave him inspiration in powering through college despite being poor.

“(They) gave me the will to strive harder and prove that poverty will not stop us from doing something,” he said.

After graduation, Alex plans to work on getting his doctorate degree before working for the country. He is interested in working in the field of renewable energy, seeing as the Philippines stands as the second biggest geothermal energy producer in the world. “I could be there, tap those resources and optimize them,” he said.

He added that it sounds cliche, but he wants to give back to the Philippines. Having studied in what he considers a macrocosm of Philippine society, he said he was made aware of different problems confronting the country, and the enormous potential UP graduates have in solving them.

“Imagine the change we can give… Imagine how many more thousands will march with us. If each and every one of those graduates would have that thinking, imagine the impact,” he said.

On his graduation day on April 27, Alex will have officially completed his degree in chemical engineering. He is already way past his big problem of budgeting P2,500 for two months. He has a bigger problem post-graduation, though, but he intends to solve it with the same passion and determination that resulted in his astounding academic achievement.

“I really want to do something that could change the Philippines,” he said.

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Beautiful Story MUST READ

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One stormy night an elderly man and his wife entered the lobby of a small hotel in Philadelphia, USA trying to get out of the rain . They approached the front desk in order to get some shelter for the night.

“Could you possibly give us a room here?” – the husband asked. The clerk gave a broad smile , looked at the couple and explained that it was unfortunate that there were three simultaneous conventions in town. “All of our rooms are taken,” the clerk said. “ But I can’t send a nice couple like you out into the rain at one o’clock in the morning. Would you perhaps be willing to sleep in my room? It’s not exactly a suite, but it will be good enough to make you folks comfortable for the night.” When the couple declined, the young man insisted . “Don’t worry about me, I shall be fine.” the clerk told them. So the couple agreed.

As he paid his bill the next morning, the elderly man appreciated the kindness of the clerk and said to the clerk, “You deserve to be the kind of manager who should be the boss of the best hotel in town. Maybe someday I’ll build one for you.” The clerk looked at them and smiled. The three of them had a good laugh. As they drove away, the elderly couple agreed that the helpful clerk was indeed an exceptional manager.

Two years passed. The clerk had almost forgotten the incident when he received a letter from the old man. It recalled that stormy night and enclosed a round-trip ticket to New York, asking the young man to pay them a visit. The old man met him in New York, and led him to the corner of Fifth Avenue and 34th Street. He then pointed to a great new building there, a pale reddish stone, with imposing elevation and watchtowers thrusting up to the sky.

“That,” said the older man, “is the hotel I have just built for you to manage.” “You must be joking.” – the young man said. “I can assure you I am not.” – said the older man, a sly smile playing around his mouth. The older man’s name was William Waldorf-Aster, and that magnificent structure was the original Waldorf-Astoria Hotel. The young clerk who became its first manager was George C. Boldt. This young clerk never foresaw that a single act of kindness would catapult him to become manager of one of the world’s most glamorous hotels.

Be kind to everybody. It will enrich you multi fold in the long run.

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God bless everyone…..

MESSAGE FOR THE SINGLE LADIES AND GENTS

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MESSAGE FOR THE SINGLE LADIES AND GENTS

A Very Touching Story….

A poor boy was in love with a rich man’s daughter….One day the boy proposed to her and the girl said…”Hey! Listen, your monthly salary is my daily hand expenses..How can I be involved with you..?

How could you have thought of that? I can never love you, so forget about me and get engaged to someone else at your level”

But somehow the boy could not forget her so easily…..Some time 10 years later they stumbled into each other in a shopping mall.
The lady again said….,”Hey.. ! You! How are you? Now I’m married and do you know how much my husband’s salary is..? $15,700 per month! Can you beat that? And he is also very smart”

The guy’s eyes got wet with tears on hearing those words from the same lady….
A few seconds later, her husband came around but before the lady could say a word her husband seeing the guy, said……

“Sir you’re here and you’ve met my wife..” Then he said to his wife,”This is my boss, I’m also one of those working on his $100 million project!
And do you know a fact my dear? My boss loved a lady but he couldn’t win her heart….That’s why he has remained unmarried since.

How lucky would that lady have been, if she had married this my boss now? These days, who would love someone that much?”
He said all these to his wife.
The lady looked in total shock but couldn’t utter a word….
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Life is so short and it’s just like a mirror.
You can only see as much as it reflects. So don’t be too arrogant or proud by looking down on others because of their current situations.
Things get changed with time just like the weather..! Don’t under estimate anyone because everyone has a great future!
Where you have been rejected before, you will be celebrated soon in Jesus name.
Shout a big AMEN if you’re a believer
God bless you & Feel free to Like and SHARE for Others to read!!

ONE DAY I DECIDED TO QUIT.

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I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality… I wanted to quit my life.
I went to the woods to have one last talk with god
“God”, I asked,
“Can you give me one good reason not to quit?”.
His answer surprised me…
“Look around”, He said. “Do you see the fern and the bamboo ?
“Yes”, I replied.
“When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them.
I gave them light.I gave them water.The fern quickly grew from the earth.
Its brilliant green covered the floor.Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.In the second year the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful.
And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. He said.
“In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed.But I would not quit.
In year four, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed. I would not quit.” He said.
“Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant…But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall.
It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive.I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle.”
He asked me. “Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots”.
“I would not quit on the bamboo.I will never quit on you.”
“Don’t compare yourself to others.” He said.”The bamboo had a different Purpose than the fern.
Yet they both make the forest beautiful.””Your time will come”, God said to me.
“You will rise high”.
“How high should I rise?” I asked.
“How high will the bamboo rise?” He asked in return.
“As high as it can?” I questioned.”Yes.” He said, “Give Me glory by rising as high as you can.”
I left the forest and brought back this story.I hope these words can help you see that God will never give up on
you.Never, Never, Never, Give up.
Don’t tell the Lord how big the problem is, tell the problem how Great the Lord is!